<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" > <channel><title>Comments on: TEA PARTY</title> <atom:link href="http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/2010/07/21/tea-party/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/2010/07/21/tea-party/</link> <description>One family&#039;s journey towards a sustainable, more self sufficient life</description> <lastBuildDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 02:24:50 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1</generator> <item><title>By: Anais</title><link>http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/2010/07/21/tea-party/comment-page-1/#comment-58175</link> <dc:creator>Anais</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 01:58:55 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/?p=21806#comment-58175</guid> <description>@Alice:  What a wonderful wedding gift idea.  Thanks for sharing that and your thoughts on the value of a simple life.   It seems that there&#039;s more gained in taking steps backwards!   You have a wonderful positive attitude and that&#039;s really important asset to have.  Many blessings to you and all the best on your simple journey</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Alice:  What a wonderful wedding gift idea.  Thanks for sharing that and your thoughts on the value of a simple life.   It seems that there's more gained in taking steps backwards!   You have a wonderful positive attitude and that's really important asset to have.  Many blessings to you and all the best on your simple journey</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Alice</title><link>http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/2010/07/21/tea-party/comment-page-1/#comment-58132</link> <dc:creator>Alice</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 17:15:59 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/?p=21806#comment-58132</guid> <description>Do you ever get the feeling that people around you see your back to basics lifestyle as a series of sacrifices? Of course they do in the beginning.  Later they see that we have things that they don&#039;t.  We get though the hard times better than they do.  Now they are wanting to know how we do it.  One young lady I worked with was getting married.  When I asked her what she needed she said,&quot; I need to know some of the things you know.&quot;  I took 3X5 cards and wrote out things for her.  Just hints as I thought of them.  I then placed them in a binder for her and a gas card as they were traveling to another state to live.  It was the most looked at and read gift of the party.  Many more asked for copies.If you are striving to live a frugal or simple life, you probably already know the motivation for ‘giving something up’ is what you stand to gain. It is all attitude on my part.  If I look at it as giving something up I will not be happy.  It is a big adventure for me.  I love the things that come up everyday.  I can do this and am a better person for it.What have you gained from living simply, frugally or sustainably? What do you hope to gain? What have you traded in and have been the better for it? As for giving up:  I have gave up headaches, high blood pressure and blood work numbers that made the DR grab pen and pad to order pills.  I am healther now than ever and no pills for me.  Fresh air, pure water and good food cure many things. The benifits of exercise from gardening and feeding the animals.How have you/your family focus on what you have and not what you don’t have. I have a paid for house and plot of ground to do with what I will.  I have better health, I am happier now than before.  I have Blessings untold.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you ever get the feeling that people around you see your back to basics lifestyle as a series of sacrifices?<br /> Of course they do in the beginning.  Later they see that we have things that they don't.  We get though the hard times better than they do.  Now they are wanting to know how we do it.  One young lady I worked with was getting married.  When I asked her what she needed she said," I need to know some of the things you know."  I took 3X5 cards and wrote out things for her.  Just hints as I thought of them.  I then placed them in a binder for her and a gas card as they were traveling to another state to live.  It was the most looked at and read gift of the party.  Many more asked for copies.</p><p>If you are striving to live a frugal or simple life, you probably already know the motivation for ‘giving something up’ is what you stand to gain.<br /> It is all attitude on my part.  If I look at it as giving something up I will not be happy.  It is a big adventure for me.  I love the things that come up everyday.  I can do this and am a better person for it.</p><p>What have you gained from living simply, frugally or sustainably? What do you hope to gain? What have you traded in and have been the better for it?<br /> As for giving up:  I have gave up headaches, high blood pressure and blood work numbers that made the DR grab pen and pad to order pills.  I am healther now than ever and no pills for me.  Fresh air, pure water and good food cure many things. The benifits of exercise from gardening and feeding the animals.</p><p>How have you/your family focus on what you have and not what you don’t have.<br /> I have a paid for house and plot of ground to do with what I will.  I have better health, I am happier now than before.  I have Blessings untold.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Anais</title><link>http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/2010/07/21/tea-party/comment-page-1/#comment-58111</link> <dc:creator>Anais</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 13:27:27 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/?p=21806#comment-58111</guid> <description>@mary:   Hi Mary!  Thank you for the positive comments. Sounds like you have a purposeful and beautiful life.  Thanks for sharing what simple living means to you.   Not to mention how proud you must be have one of your kids jump on board.   That&#039;s GREAT!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@mary:   Hi Mary!  Thank you for the positive comments. Sounds like you have a purposeful and beautiful life.  Thanks for sharing what simple living means to you.   Not to mention how proud you must be have one of your kids jump on board.   That's GREAT!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: mary</title><link>http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/2010/07/21/tea-party/comment-page-1/#comment-57931</link> <dc:creator>mary</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 00:44:40 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/?p=21806#comment-57931</guid> <description>What a wonderful post and pictures.  But what I really like are your questions at the end.I KNOW others see us as &quot;poor&quot; because of all the little things we do - and DON&#039;T do.  I garden, shop at thrift stores, cut hair for all six of us, sew, cook from scratch, hang up laundry and so on [and on, and on].  My relatives especially respond to us as poor and are sometimes condescending.  But - I know the real truth: we have a wealth beyond measure.  We gave up credit card debt two years ago and now thrive in our frugal lifestyle.  Our &quot;sacrifices&quot; mean that each of our children is learning animal husbandry on our urban homestead - instead of learning how to play video games.  I &quot;sacrifice&quot; a lot of time to homeschool my children in order to give them the kind of education we feel is best.  Our kids are also learning life skills taught in the context of real experiences - like repairing equipment, entrepreneurship, saving for things you need, making do with what you have, basic home maintenance and repair...etc.I could write so much more about what we have &quot;given up&quot; over the years.  I have no regrets for the choices we have made.  When I heard my 16 year old son say &quot;I wouldn&#039;t want to live any other way&quot; - I knew that we have gained more than we left behind!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a wonderful post and pictures.  But what I really like are your questions at the end.</p><p>I KNOW others see us as "poor" because of all the little things we do - and DON'T do.  I garden, shop at thrift stores, cut hair for all six of us, sew, cook from scratch, hang up laundry and so on [and on, and on].  My relatives especially respond to us as poor and are sometimes condescending.  But - I know the real truth: we have a wealth beyond measure.  We gave up credit card debt two years ago and now thrive in our frugal lifestyle.  Our "sacrifices" mean that each of our children is learning animal husbandry on our urban homestead - instead of learning how to play video games.  I "sacrifice" a lot of time to homeschool my children in order to give them the kind of education we feel is best.  Our kids are also learning life skills taught in the context of real experiences - like repairing equipment, entrepreneurship, saving for things you need, making do with what you have, basic home maintenance and repair...etc.</p><p>I could write so much more about what we have "given up" over the years.  I have no regrets for the choices we have made.  When I heard my 16 year old son say "I wouldn't want to live any other way" - I knew that we have gained more than we left behind!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Anais</title><link>http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/2010/07/21/tea-party/comment-page-1/#comment-57802</link> <dc:creator>Anais</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 05:02:00 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/?p=21806#comment-57802</guid> <description>@Wendy:   OOOOH, would have loved hats.  Too bad I didn&#039;t inherit or know someone who had fancy hats we could borrow.  Think the girls would have liked playing dress up!    Great insight on the value of simplicity.  Thanks for sharing.  I think when folks take steps to merge off the freeway of modern life onto a simpler path the benefits are endless.  Thanks again for sharing your journey.  Wishing you all the best.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Wendy:   OOOOH, would have loved hats.  Too bad I didn't inherit or know someone who had fancy hats we could borrow.  Think the girls would have liked playing dress up!    Great insight on the value of simplicity.  Thanks for sharing.  I think when folks take steps to merge off the freeway of modern life onto a simpler path the benefits are endless.  Thanks again for sharing your journey.  Wishing you all the best.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Anais</title><link>http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/2010/07/21/tea-party/comment-page-1/#comment-57800</link> <dc:creator>Anais</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 04:58:44 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/?p=21806#comment-57800</guid> <description>@anita: Thanks, so glad you enjoyed our pictorial post.  The tea party was fun.    Yep, all we needed was our imagination and time to rummage thru all the stuff folks have given us over the years.  We find it hard to throw things away, never know when they may come in handy.  The girls loved putting on the mardi gras necklaces.  Too bad I didn&#039;t &quot;inherit&quot; or know of someone who had a lot of fancy hats - cuz I think that would have been fun to put them on!  ;)    Here&#039;s to tea time and brightening your day.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@anita: Thanks, so glad you enjoyed our pictorial post.  The tea party was fun.    Yep, all we needed was our imagination and time to rummage thru all the stuff folks have given us over the years.  We find it hard to throw things away, never know when they may come in handy.  The girls loved putting on the mardi gras necklaces.  Too bad I didn't "inherit" or know of someone who had a lot of fancy hats - cuz I think that would have been fun to put them on! <img src='http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> Here's to tea time and brightening your day.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: anita</title><link>http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/2010/07/21/tea-party/comment-page-1/#comment-57792</link> <dc:creator>anita</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 02:51:37 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/?p=21806#comment-57792</guid> <description>Dear Anais and Jordanne, Simply stunning. You didn&#039;t need Martha Stewart and 50 of her assistants to create this blissful scene. Just what I needed to brightened my cold winters day in Melbourne. Popping the kettle now. Anita</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Anais and Jordanne,<br /> Simply stunning.<br /> You didn't need Martha Stewart and 50 of her assistants to create this blissful scene.<br /> Just what I needed to brightened my cold winters day in Melbourne.<br /> Popping the kettle now.<br /> Anita</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Wendy</title><link>http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/2010/07/21/tea-party/comment-page-1/#comment-57747</link> <dc:creator>Wendy</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 20:55:52 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/?p=21806#comment-57747</guid> <description>I love tea parties.  I hosted a tea party, complete with fancy dresses and hats ;), for my daughter&#039;s baby shower.  It was so much fun.As for what we&#039;ve gained by simplifying our lives, I&#039;m not sure you have the patience for me to enumerate all of the positive benefits we&#039;ve seen in our lives.  The most important, though, has been the sense of coming together between my husband and me.  It&#039;s made our relationship closer and stronger, because we have this very common goal, something tangible - our nanofarm here in the suburbs - and our goal is to, someday, not have to work outside of our home and to be able to support ourselves here.  As a result of simplifying our lives we have a greater sense of purpose, and we feel like we&#039;re actually doing something, something important and worthwhile, rather than just getting through the day in a hurry to get to the next.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love tea parties.  I hosted a tea party, complete with fancy dresses and hats <img src='http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> , for my daughter's baby shower.  It was so much fun.</p><p>As for what we've gained by simplifying our lives, I'm not sure you have the patience for me to enumerate all of the positive benefits we've seen in our lives.  The most important, though, has been the sense of coming together between my husband and me.  It's made our relationship closer and stronger, because we have this very common goal, something tangible - our nanofarm here in the suburbs - and our goal is to, someday, not have to work outside of our home and to be able to support ourselves here.  As a result of simplifying our lives we have a greater sense of purpose, and we feel like we're actually doing something, something important and worthwhile, rather than just getting through the day in a hurry to get to the next.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Anais</title><link>http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/2010/07/21/tea-party/comment-page-1/#comment-57729</link> <dc:creator>Anais</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 18:37:51 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/?p=21806#comment-57729</guid> <description>@Ginger:  Great pearls of wisdom, thanks again for sharing.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Ginger:  Great pearls of wisdom, thanks again for sharing.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Anais</title><link>http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/2010/07/21/tea-party/comment-page-1/#comment-57728</link> <dc:creator>Anais</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 18:37:31 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://urbanhomestead.org/journal/?p=21806#comment-57728</guid> <description>@Susan: So true.  Real food definitely does taste better, not to mention more satisfying.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Susan: So true.  Real food definitely does taste better, not to mention more satisfying.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>

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